You stand there and ponder
Which flavor should I opt for?
You slowly weigh the pros and cons for every flavor
The mint tastes bitter after a while and leaves an after taste
The strawberry is too sweet
You carefully decide
After all, this pack of gum is going to be with you through 16 sticks
Relationships today are like that pack or piece of gum
If you’re regular get just one kind
Mint
That can reflect your type
The individual pieces vary but are all from the same source
You start with the first piece
Sweet
Juicy
Welcoming and arousing all the senses in your mouth
You chew down gently turning the solid into a flexible moldable piece
The beginning of the relationship is just as sweet
Doing things and arousing feelings you thought you never had
Relationships
The more you chew
Sometimes the harder it gets
Or you chew so hard the piece starts to break into small pieces
Sticking to the wrong places
Making a mess
But you continue to chew
Because that’s what we do
How we are
Stick eight
Midway through
The gum becomes harder to enjoy
Like those petty arguments you have been having for months now
And not knowing why
But like that pack of gum
You paid for it
And you’re in it
You continue to try to make it work
You chew on the next one hoping it would be better than the last
You approach it differently
Trying not to chew too fast
Or give him sex too early
You suck when you should chew just to stay careful
Sometimes you can continue and manage
But for some
it’s all too much and the piece gets thrown out completely
You make up your mind to not buy that kind anymore
Because you realize how many times you’ve bitten yourself
Last piece
After so long
You have mastered the way to enjoy this piece
You take your time with it
Partly because it is the last one
But also because the last one always gets it best
You now know when to suck
When to chew
When to calm your tongue
And keep it stashed in the corner of your mouth
You savor it
IT’s the last one
And like the first it arouses your senses but
In a much different way
But then after a while
You have to make up your mind
Keep chewing on it even when your jaw hurts
Or new pack
When the time comes enjoy your last piece
You’ve been through quite a few to get to that point
Don’t just let he/she walk out easily like the others
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Very insightful… a penetrating perspective on relationships
The analogy was perfect. Gave me food for thought…